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How to Tell If the Relationship Can Move Forward
How do you know if your partner dude is dead serious about your relationship and comfortable enough to give you the girlfriend status? Well, he will only give his agreement after he gets some answers to some pretty personal questions and reactions to several situations that could very well test the longevity of future relationship. The questions and tests would come usually at inopportune and unexpected times.
Exploding Because of an Ex
The mere mention of an ex flame usually evokes a feeling of jealousy or distrust. It is during these times when chilling out and being understandable becomes a virtue that could save a relationship and move the relationship forward.
Girls who flame out just hearing the name of an ex becomes history most of the time. The better course of action is to stay cool and try to learn more if the ex surfacing again is real or just a mirage. Dudes usually dig chicks that are secured in their own skin.
Support During Down Times
Relationships should be stable not only during happy moments but also durable during times of distress. Even though being a stallion mean being macho and superior to the female specie, a dude can feel the caring touch of women who can support their partners when they are down in the dumps. Take the case of Marco who in one time came over to see his girlfriend while in the fit of an asthmatic attack. His girl, instead of laughing and making fun of him, got him a warm cup of soup and massaged his back. Such an expression of care is usually a signal to the dude that the girl is for keeps.
Some Space Would Mean a Lot
Dudes, by nature, are freedom loving creatures who value their personal space. If a girl is so obsessively high strung in putting a guy in a box, the relationship has no other way to go but to the dumps. If a guy tells his girlfriend that he needs to be with his buddies to see a baseball game and the girl suddenly explodes in a fit of rage accusing the dude of being indifferent, the guy would already have a premonition of a future suffocating relationship. Divas who only think of their well being deserve a robot, not a real dude. So girl, you need to be expressive, not possessive.
Sometimes Girls need to be Cowboys
If your dude is not the cheap kind but sometimes find himself scratching for money, the way a girl reacts during such sticky situations goes a long way in knowing if the relationship can move forward. Take the case of a guy who is supposed to escort his girlfriend to the Prom but by stroke of bad luck just lost his wallet in the subway. Since he has committed himself to go to the prom, he borrows some measly twenty bucks from his uncle for the dinner before the dance. When the guy tells his girl that he can only take him to Arby’s or Mcdonalds and the guy gets his eardrums busted by the girls statement, “Are you crazy!!! I cannot go to such dump in my prom dress.” Then, you girl is history.
Lying is Not a Good Investment
The best way to end a relationship is to keep a secret that could humiliate a dude unexpectedly. A case in point is a girl who kept silent on his sexual encounter with her dude’s best friend. When the dude finds out from another guy that his girlfriend has slept with his best friend before, and the girl lied that she never knew his best friend ever, then, fireworks and a quick breakup would commonly comes next. So, the moral of the story is being truthful even though it hurts. If the guy does not understand, then he does not deserve you.
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